
I'm so glad my sister doesn't roll through this website---and if she DOES? "HI CHRISTY!!!!!!! DIG JEFF'S CREDITS WHILE YOU'RE HERE.....SEE THAT? SOMEBODY thought ENOUGH of my computer skills to THROW THAT IN MY LAP WITHOUT ASKING ME FIRST. Drafted!"
Now that I've got *THAT* off my chest?
WHEN THE EFF will any of my family EVER figure that my best efforts are WORTH something????
I've been absentee from Toto Network for a few days.
SPENDING SIX HOURS monitoring and maintaining a WEBSITE I OPENED UP WITHOUT SUGGESTION from anybody---I did it AFTER a suggestion, but my sister DID NOT ASK me to do it.
I did it on my own....because okay-the school needs the word that we're doing an alumni association deal now. MYSPACE is the best tool for that.
So....having been paid to sit in front of computers for QUITE A FWE YEARS, I jumped on it, figuring SEVENTEEN YEARS OF ONLINE EXPERIENCE would be a boon to my former fellow classmates and give them a place to hang online.
BEFORE the Association gets rollin'.
TWENTY FIVE YEARS worth of GRADUATING CLASSES this is.
I put up a background at Myspace, changed CODE IN THE 'ABOUT ME' ---tweaking javacript so the page would lay right.
CHANGED HEXADECIMAL COLOUR CODES to make school colours LOOK DECENT on a monitor. TRUE GOLD needs a MUSTARD hue. RTF 111 talkin'.
MASS COMMUNICATIONS CLASS talkin' there.
What'd she tell me to do?
Change the background.
I guess some people are IDIOTS when it comes to abstract art.
I had to explain to people with better eyes than MINE what the backgroud was!!!!!!!
Changed it-but COPYRIGHTED the change and she'll have to invade my imageshack account to GET THAT at all.
today SHE TOLD ME SHE DIDN'T WANT ME ON THE PAGE EVERY DAY ADDING STUFF. i THOUGHT, "ok, moron.....you are my sister but you don't know jack S*** about web geekin' it....you ain't got the chops."
SHE HAS NOT ONCE coded Javacript that I'm aware of. I HATE JAVA...it's a pain in the @$$.
i'M AN html BABE MYSELF. kUDOS TO Chainsaw for CODING JEFF'S LINKS IN HTML. THAT TOOK WORK.
I am getting BEYOND SICK of bustin' my @$$ and GIVING MY BEST and having people SPIT IN MY FACE. I put up THE ONE IMAGE I HAVE from my high school band days that MEANT ANYTHING....faded TWNETY YEAR OLD 3X5 IMAGE THAT SHE THINKS SHE CAN FIX WITH A SCANNER.
GREEN CAST ON THE 3X5 DUE TO THE FLURESCENTS AND CREAM-COLOURED WALLS WE PLAYED IN the night I got the Sousa Award.
AND MY SISTER DELETED THAT.
I JUMPED HER.
i TOLD HER tonight that I'm at Myspace on that page to ensure TOM doesn't allow some advertisement to pop up bearing an embedded Trojan.
The MINUTE that site gets cratered??? She won't have TIME toget it back up....not with a 50 hour a week job and 2 month old.
YOU WOULD THINK somebody would respect what you used to do for a living.
Guess not.
My Dad remided me tonight tha he's walked off jobs due to clients trying to tell him how DO WHAT THEY PAY HIM FOR.
If I "let here the website" like HE told me....and it goes down?
FIRST PERSON SHE'LL CALL IS ME.
Watch it.
I told him that. She can run eight million dollar MRI magnets but she knows ABSOLUTELY NOTHING about chasing down hackers----calling INTERPOL because some idiot from RUSSIA cratered a site you maintained...or that went University Wide...... I've done it.
I'ev helped people track folks down across SIX TIMES ZONES.
INTERPOL?
A former boss had WORDS with those guys....and I sat back LAUGHING AT 'EM AS HE DID SO.
wHEN YOU'VE kicked $2 million worth of IBM equipment across a threshold, set it down adn it RUNS LIKE A TOP? I'd think you know a LITTLE BIT ----A MINUTE AMOUNT OF STUFF about being careful in computer circles.
The minute the alumni website catches a cold....she'll come runnin, "fix it".
Guess what?
"Nope.....got isick of being jerked around----fix it yourself."
And I'll LAUGH IN HER FACE all the way to my drum room.

Dig THIS. THE FOLLOWING has fed me for 37 years. My Dad is friggin' BRILLIANT. (After putting the whole website snafu in business terms??? The following was offered up by a pastor, contractor, music minister and 40-year carpnetry foreman:
"I've walked off jobs after the third time somebody's asked me to change somethin'. Tear out and re-do??? I've kinda been there myself"
"...let her do it, if it falls apart, it ain't your problem anymore-and you won't have nothin' to worry with."
Know what?
Instead of deleteing the myspace page in question, I cancelled the email address attached to it. FOLLOWING DAD's ADVICE.
About two hours later, myspace friends requests began to bounce.....and bounce....and I guarantee you there are PCHS alumni asking Christy, "What the heck happened?"
This forced her to not only pull up another page, but to also DELETE AND RE-INVITE EIGHTY PEOPLE TO THAT SAME SITE.
Time management for a younger sibling who has always been "my way or the highway", ---for a young woman who has a TWO MONTH OLD and an 18 year old in college....?
TIME MANAGEMENT?
SHE SAID SHE HAD TIME?
Not after requests started bouncing off AT&T servers like silly putty. This is a test of just how much MACRO-MANAGEMENT she can do and still remain sane.
SHE MICRO-MANAGED ME RIGHT THE EFF OUTTA THE SITUATION.
i hate BEING MICRO-MANAGED.
So does our dad.
Pulling a page outta my Daddy's business management playbook just bit his younger daughter in the butt. HARD.
LESSON: DON'T PUT UP WITH CLIENTS WHO CAN'T BE SATISIFIED WITH YOUR WORK REGARDLESS OF WHETHER OR NOT YOU'RE BEING PAID FOR A JOB YOU DO.
DON'T LET ANYBODY MICRO_MANAGE your life, or your job.....
MACRO MANAGEMENT WORKS.
Oh, and gotta love it...."When it doubt, lay out?"
Dad told me the same thing---just in a different way.
IT WORKS.
LESSON CONCLUDED


It sucks if you're not appreciated (especially with family), can't take the bad feeling away from you but please DO know that at least I appreciate all the effort you put in ME!!! Love you girl!
Hugs from Holland!
Music is the answer!

Hey T, its always your family that brings you down, I can vouch for that quite a few times over! But now that you got that all off your chest and out in the open do you feel better? I know I would, and I'm sure your family love and appreciate you big time, you just feel like they are on a different planet than you most of the time - but rest assured there are people on the other side of the world that think you are VERY talented and worth more than just words in an email. Keep on smiling T and you give those drums a good bashing cause I know it sure does help me when Im stressed from the troubles of life! (just make sure you get some footage on here pronto of your licks ~ now there is a project for you that would truly be loved and appreciated right HERE on TN!)
Don't let the turkeys get ya down even if you are related to em!
:-)

We had so stinkin' MUCH fun. She went for mom's old keyboard more today though. That's cool.
Here's the thing.
Once for changing a background? Ok. Coool.
Twice? For getting an avatar Ok. Sweet.
But telling me she "didn't want me on the site every day" adding stuff??? That's when she was handed the WHOLE STINKIN' TURD to dig through all by her lonesome. UNLESS she wants to pay somebody else to do that for her.
With my nephew in school, and a young 'un at 2 mo. old that's got hiccups every other day to beat all, and whose tummy gives her fits....Kaley's Mama ain't got a heckuva lot of time to do ANYTHING but her job, her classes at the Y---running the MRI doughnut?
Let's add "web G33k" to that.
Let's see her try and figure out why friends requests are bouncing all over creation now.
She told me she "did not WANT" to manage the site herself?
And yet she kept PICKING NITS over layout???? (mine?) when I used my ISP to SAVE HER SOME TROUBLE----? Look -she's got a BABY right now.
I had HOPED WITH ALL MY HEART TO SPARE HER SOME TIME I HER DAILY ROUTINE...and get the word out.
I am RETIRED.
She won't see that for 20 years.
Let's see just how much she really has time-wise.
I'm praying for the opportunity to tell her in front of my Dad, "well, ya know? i kinda got tired of re-modeling".
He won't say a word to me about that.
He's BEEN THERE.
Sis can re-build teh Cyber Dawg House-and if it gets infested?
She ain't comin' back to me with her tail 'tween her legs begging help. I had offered it FREELY WAY before this crap happened.
I ain't into being taken for granted.
VOLUNTEER I DID.
I ain't gettin' stepped on by nobody for tryin'.
;-))
Nope.
Too much Dorise Watkins in me for THAT.


As long as you know there are some great people here who love ya unconditionally !
I'm not a complete idiot ... Some parts are missing !

hey T
we al get sisk from being jerked around now and then
so good for you don't let them anymore
and remember your as good or better as anyboby else
so don't let it get to you and know there are lots of people
how love you just the way you are
lot of love ellen
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